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Don’t ASSUME that you are dating
Do not assume a commitment before you have one. Just because you have had sex with him does not mean that you are boyfriend and girlfriend. You also cannot assume that because you have had a few dates, he is not seeing other women. He may well be. The only real way to know if you are an official couple is to have the talk and make it official. And avoid doing that too soon as it can also scare guys away. Just try and relax and let things take their own course.
Being needy. Stop it!
If you need constant validation from your man then this exhausts him and makes him want to leave. Men wish that women knew they love them. That constant neediness is toxic to a mans love. The more you need him to tell you he loves you, the less he will love you.
Neediness is actually what kills attraction. Men are attracted to confident women who feel secure in their own skin. They want to feel like their woman is a prize and he has to keep working at keeping her. If you show that you are dependent on HIM then where is the threat of you leaving in that? He needs to feel like he has to make an effort or he will become bored and then he will want to leave or look elsewhere.
PLUS – always asking how you look, does he love you – well it can come off as being very self absorbed and obsessed and who wants that in a partner?
You come on too strong and too fast sexually.
If you do this then a guy thinks that you are like this with everyone. It is not attractive. Also, men like to feel like they are the one who can make the moves and if you are always available then he may feel like he could be anyone and you are just out for sex. If you see yourself as just a sexual being then he sees you as this also.
You are worth more than this so try holding off for a little bit when it comes to sex and let him chase you. Men love to make the moves. Yes, you can sexually confident in the bedroom as men do like this but remember to also be feminine and let him be the hunter so that there is an equal balance and he feels like a king.
About Michael Fiore
Michael Fiore is a relationship expert and has helped millions of women across the world have better relationships and Nora is his co-host.
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